Is that why you were so careful with listing people at first? I see...

[ Of course, it makes sense that there is more to all of the people here than they might have known at first glance. In that way, it's been gratifying to start peeling back some of the layers. ]

If this question is too forward, you don't have to answer, but have you been with anyone romantically since that girlfriend?

[ Because if the answer is no, that also explains a lot. ]