[Ah...that's a little different. The girl did step on Lin's toes. She can't completely blame her for her honesty, but Manuela has to wonder just how much was already starting to fall apart by the time it happened.]

No? It's always been a little confusing to me - having kids, that is. If I want them, the thought process that goes into having them...that kind of thing.

[That choice seemed easily available to Lin, too...which isn't something she could say for all married women where she comes from. It's a privilege.]

Do you mind sharing why?